A few weeks ago I filmed my first sitcom.
I’m going to be honest and say it was pretty exciting to just write that sentence.
It was even more exciting because this was a role I never thought I would play. “Ashely” was described as a “sexy, party-girl.”
I usually play that kind of girl’s nerdy, socially awkward, best friend.
But I tapped into that one time in college when my roommates and I threw a giant party (before I cried and left the house) and it went well. The producers must have thought so too because a week later I was walking onto the set of “The Exes” (watch it on TVLand!)
I was led to my dressing room and greeted by the cast (people I have watched and admired on TV for years.) I looked around at the cameras, the crew, the actors and I couldn’t help but remember the very first time I was ever on a studio lot. The very first time I ever auditioned for a big role. The very first time I ever came close to my dream.
And it hadn’t been like this at all.
I had just signed with my new manager and it was my first network audition. Before that, I had only been auditioning for student films and films that made sure to start every audition with the words, “we can’t pay you but…”
So I wanted everything to go perfectly.
The morning of the audition I rehearsed and rehearsed. I had chosen the perfect outfit - a salmon colored dress with short sleeves - and decided exactly how to wear my hair. But as I stood in my pre-planned outfit reciting my lines, I happened to glance in the mirror and realized my perfect dress highlighted something unfortunate: My sweaty arm pits.
I panicked. Changing my dress was not an option. I had planned on this dress after trying and rejecting everything else in my closet.
My audition was in an hour and I needed a solution immediately. Just before I thought I might have to go buy a new dress, I remembered something.
A minute later I was digging through my bathroom drawer. Finally, I pulled out exactly what I was looking for: Maxi-Pads.
I had read that you could use the pads to line the armpits of a dress. Plus, it said right there on the package they had “moisture-locking protection.” It was perfect.
As I crossed onto the Warner Brothers lot I was confident. I knew my lines, I had on the perfect dress, and I had moisture-free armpits.
I strolled to my audition and I noticed that everyone was being incredibly kind to me. An important looking man held the door, a producer I knew waved kindly at me, a a complete stranger said hello. If this was what big-time Hollywood was like, I thought, sign me up.
A few minutes before my audition I ducked into the bathroom to do a final check.
Teeth – check! Hair – check! Make-up – check! Armpits -
I stopped.
ARMPITS.
There, hanging out of the sleeve of my dress was one of the bright pink maxi-pads.
I couldn’t breath, I couldn’t even look at myself.
This was why people had been so nice to me. This was why people had smiled at me with, what I know realized, was sympathy - not kindness.
I stood there, staring at myself in the mirror, humiliated.
But now, as I stood in my dressing room about to film my scenes for “The Exes” I thought back to that day, almost three years ago.
I realized none of that mattered.
I may never be the girl who has it all together, who doesn’t get nervous and who never makes mistakes. I am not the sexy, party-girl with the perfect hair and the perfectly dry armpits.
But I play one on TV.
This piece was originally written for the Fargo Forum. You can find them (and me) here.
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